London Andrews & Me : Stalker Part 2

 London Andrews & Me : Stalker Part 2

Am I a stalker ?

Then I was a stalker by invitation !

I am repeatedly accused by London Andrews and her ‘flying monkey’ trolls of being a stalker.

Well, I’m collector.

Collecting is an expression of my obsessive personality. But, does that make me a stalker ?

I was certainly a serious follower, like so many other followers, a moths to flame that is or was London Andrews.

Was I stalking her, when she was directly involved putting together how I ran, The London Andrews Project ? When she pointed me in the direction of where to find things to help tell her story. Because in 2019, London was looking to finish with actively modelling, but looking at ways to exploit her back catalogue of modelling work etc. Because London wanted to shift her focus to the sanctuary and needed someone else to keep London Andrews in the public eye. So she could continue to exploit her old material. She figured she would not have the time, so she needed someone else to help her. Someone else to tell her story and keep her in the public eye. That someone was me !

Here’s where I wish I had been *more* of a collector, *more* of a stalker. I wish I had collected more of the messages that passed between us, rather than the odd ones that were of special interest. Because so much was lost, so much evidence, when London did her campaign of blocking and unblocking our online accounts. When she unleashed her ‘fly-monkeys’ to troll me. It would have made this battle so much easier. The evidence, irrefutable !

But forget about evidence. I regret the loss of some of those messages because they mattered to me personally. The ones before she turned on me, they meant something.

So, what exactly is stalking ?

Monitoring the victim and collecting of online data, messages, images etc.

The intrusive collection of private online data, messages, images, contacts etc, where permission would generally be required.

Constantly messaging, publicly and privately.

Claiming to be the person being stalked. By pretending to be them, the stalker gains more control over the victim.

Contacting friends and relatives online to facilitate whatever the stalkers agenda is.

The stalker harasses the victim both privately and publicly.

The stalker creates dummy/fake accounts to troll the victim.

Spreading rumours, gossip, and false stories about the victim.

The stalker encouraging other people to join in harassing the victim.

The stalker threatens and blackmails the victim.

So, a really serious question. Is that me ?

In answer to my own question, for the first item on the list, yes !

But, here’s the thing, I did that with London’s full knowledge. She invited me to do what I did !

And here’s something to think about ? A real example of my stalking.

First a little back ground for understanding. I have a convention here on the blog where I try not to use the real name of girl who’s modelling name was London Andrews. It’s slightly nonsensical, but….

But, this goes back into our past. I came to know the real girl who also called herself London. Long ago when we were chatting we dropped into a routine of addressing her by her real name in private messages, but using London on public ones. Though I would have liked to know her full name, I never asked her to tell me her surname. That was up to her to tell me and I never hassled her for it. But, she never did.

I’ve only just realised something weird. I knew her first name and her address. I knew her phone number. But, I didn’t know her surname. And that’s the way it was, because that’s how she wanted it.

Anyway, moving onto 2019 and London is selling her house in Rochester and yes, I got a bit stalker-ish. I gave into temptation and looked up the house online. And by this, accidentally found her surname. And then this….

“Good evening London, you seem to have had a useful time doing you historical research for the farm. First, have you had my ‘Hunting For London’, email ? My internet connect has been all-over the place recently. Next, I need to apologise and report myself. I’ve given into temptation. All these years following you and I swore I wouldn’t not hunt for your family name. Sorry to say, I gave in to temptation...now I feel shit and disrespectful for doing it.

I’m sincerely sorry to let you down after all these years of following you.

Yours Apologetically

Andy”

London replied, “Got your email. It is all good. I am not her any more...and could not care less.”

“I know, but it’s the thought that counts with me. Been following you for around 5 years and it feels like I’ve slipped up and let you down in some weird way. Anyway thanks for the reply.”

Some stalker eh ? I had reported myself to London for doing what a stalker would do without a second thought. Without feeling “shit and disrespectful”. It didn’t matter, no one would know. I could have kept quiet. But, it mattered to me, because London matters to me. I felt guilty because I felt I had broken her trust. A silent agreement between us. I hadn’t kept my word...even though it had been unspoken.

Some stalker eh ?

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WE.MUST.CHANGE !!!!!!!

 

WE.MUST.CHANGE !!!!!!!

THE CORNELL RAPE CASE

THIS IS OFF TOPIC AND I’M ANGRY

“I CAN’T DO MUCH, I JUST CAN’T DO NOTHING ANYMORE”

Yes, this is very off topic and maybe uncomfortable for some of you reading this ?

First, let’s not beat about the bush : This Happened !

This angers and upsets me and it’s personal and I’ll explain and it does relate to London Andrews and my relationship with her in a way.

Some of you may recall back in 2017 London posting a succession of stories and tales driven by the #METOO movement. She detailed in painful honestly the horrors that had been done to her. Not just in career as a nude model, but through out her life. It was upsetting to me in several ways, first, of course it hurt to learn the details of the abuse someone you really care about, has had to endure. And these stories of the abuses highlight the mental and emotional damage that had been inflicted on London by her abusers !

Yes, we knew ‘sort of’ (if you had been paying attention to what London had been talking about over the years) that London had been sexually and emotionally abused, even raped (!) in the past. But to have it laid out in detail was, for me and many others, heartbreaking.

Add to this the fact that my wife had at that time and with London’s help, only just begun to open up about the abuse she had suffered as a child ! And was starting to get the treatment she had so badly needed for so long. That added to the hurt.

But there is worse and this is the impact of #METOO and why I use this clip from the comic Daniel Sloss, calling out his former friend Russel Brand. It started conversations. Perhaps the only good thing from my point of view that came out of the whole experience, was to find that I was trusted. Girls I knew would talk to me. Open up to me about things….and that’s when ‘my world fell apart’ !

I found out that a former colleague and friend from the 1980’s and 1990’s had been a nasty abusive piece of shit ! When we’d been out on the town as mates, I never thought anything. But, later when we worked together, I was suspicious : But I Did Nothing ! And the guilt of this hurts me to this day.

We were supervisors and later he became a manager and he used his position of seniority to intimidate and abuse women and girls who worked for us and I was responsible for.

Years later with #METOO starting conversations, as tales were told to me by women who had remained friends with me, he was a central figure and I was told what this man had done. But more importantly, the thoughts of what I might have done and stopped him doing it, the guilt was devastating.

Some years later our paths crossed at a conference and my guilt drove me to have a bitter conversation with this nasty piece of work. And do you know what his defence was ? “And ?” He viewed as a ‘perk of the job’ !

What was worse, he throw something back at me, like an accusation about the 1980’s. Saying, I bet you got girls drunk, just so you could have them. He shocked me, he thought I was the same as him. Yes, I’d got girls drunk. But then made sure they got home safe. I did shag them in the back of the car because they were out cold ! I didn’t grope them in doorways because they couldn’t stop me and might not even remember.

The thought that he thought I was the same as he was, hurt the worst.

And this is the thing, it is no longer acceptable say, well I’m not like that. I’m not part of the problem. The problem is here and now and WE have to act to stop it. Or you are implicated by the problem.

Do you want others to think that you just like ‘that’ because, for whatever reason, you let them abuse.

“ I Can’t Do Much. But I Can’t Do Nothing Anymore !”

Please act and protect.

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London Andrews & Me : Stalker Part 1

 

London Andrews & Me : Stalker Part 1

Am I a stalker ?

Then I was a stalker by invitation !

I am repeatedly accused by London Andrews and her ‘flying monkey’ trolls of being a stalker.

Well, I’m collector.

Collecting is an expression of my obsessive personality. But this doesn’t just apply to London. I have hundreds of vinyl records I collected in my youth. I have many, many hundreds of books and magazines in my collection for my specialist subject. And note, London is special in so many ways, but, she is not my specialist subject.

London knew this. London knows who I am. She knows the type of person I am. She what I’m like. She knows what I do and why I do it.

I collect things that interest me. London interests me, so I began collecting. There is a difference between collecting and stalking.

I subscribed to her Patreon. I cruised around the internet looking for things I could collect. I was also checking on her behalf, looking on sites and forums for occasions where her modelling work was being pirated. I would report these finds to her so she could take action. At that time Patreon was basically her sole source of income, pirating her Patreon was robbing her of money !

Sadly, I found so much of her work being pirated, sometimes that months entire Patreon update pirated, robbed from London. It became a routine that I would send London an email full of links that she could deal with.

Why did I do this ? Because London had been doing this alone prior to my help. And because London and myself would talk online and I found out just how upsetting she found this process, hunting down her pirated work. So, to save her the distress, I step in and helped.

And during this process we talked to each other across several social media sites. So she grew to know me. As time passed it became easier for her to ask me for certain items, so she could use them, than for her to search her own collections for something specific.

So, why all those screenshots of her Instagram etc ?

Well, going back, I recorded to odd one that really interested me and I wanted to remember, so I saved it. Then in 2019, when London accepted my offer of help, the very rationale of The London Andrews Project, was to share London’s posts on the social media that she had then stopped using. So then I began to collect what I thought would be interesting or important, or the ones that London herself specifically told me she wanted sharing.

So, was collecting and sharing all that, stalking ?

Here’s a little tale that gives an insight into things and also shows things are not quite as London would have you believe. At the moment London doesn’t acknowledge that she used FaceBook, following being banned by FaceBook back in 2016 and according to her that was the end of it. But….she reopened a FaceBook account to promote London Andrews’ modelling work in 2017. In 2020, as she was now focused on her animal sanctuary, which also had a FaceBook page, she decided to delete the London Andrews one. Her reasoning was, to run FaceBook, you need a personal profile, that you run your other groups and pages from. London had become worried that the modelling page would be a future threat to that profile, because of corporate puritanism and future rule changes, to her personal account and thus her sanctuary.

Prior to this deletion, she gave me a ‘heads up’, and advised I add anything I think would be interesting, to my collection. So, I did. But, is that stalking ?

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Part 2 : LA & Me – Tantalise And Titillate Number 3

Part 2 : LA & Me – Tantalise And Titillate Number 3

Another of the type of sexual, tantalising and titillating conversations Naturist Lady and myself had over on ‘Chats’. Mewe’s private, direct messaging service.

Naturist Lady, “London has turned me bisexual. She licked the cum from her and my hubby off my pussy and butthole. It was the best sex of this year. Tried some many (different) stuff. London is a freak !”

Andy Acolyte, “That I would love to see. Even if it will only be in my indignation…..why is she a freak ?”

Naturist Lady, “LOL..and today she chewed into my pussy. When will you be free ? I will tell the entire story of the sex and why she’s a freak.”

Andy A, “It’ll be another three hours before I get home. I’ll look forward to reading that!!!”

Naturist Lady, “Yup, message me when you get home. I think the story will be good enough for a masturbation session 😉 Why is she a freak ? Because she tried fisting today. Wooow her pussy was awesome…!”

Andy A asked a question to clarify who was fisting who. “”Her or you on the receiving end ?”

NL, “She...Hubby and Kyle fisted her. I think we have another session coming soon. See you soon and talk to you later.” Indicating that both the man had been involved in the sexual act of fisting London.

I had been in work and hadn’t thought I would find time to message Naturist Lady as I was busy. But I managed to find time to message. I am talking about 2 videos that Naturist Lady had sent earlier. This is something I have posted about before and will be returning to shortly. Looking back, I am guessing that they were ones I had seen on OnlyFans at some point. But, though I cannot prove this as these video messages could only be seen the once, before they deleted themselves, I am certain they did not have the OnlyFans logo on them. But, what she had been saying is that these 2 videos were of her husband having sex with London and not Kyle, London’s husband, who we had always thought it was.

AA, “Watched the videos. Seen them before, obviously. Both are (filmed in) Miami, where they on the same trip ? And was your hubby involved in the garden one as well ?”

Referring to a series of sex videos that made a complete scene. They were filmed in the lush green and tropical garden and pool of the apartment they had rented. London had been making love with a barely seen guy. It was funny, me having to sneak round to find somewhere to watch the videos. When I’m the guy who’s supposed to stop the kids (I was in charge of) being on their phones all the time. Wouldn’t look good catching the boss watching porn ! LOL.”

NL, “ You know I would send most of hubby’s videos to you.😉”

AA, “So was it your hubby in the garden one as well ?”

NL, “Along with ‘Big’.” The nickname for London’s husband, who is 6 foot 7inches (over 2 meters) tall. She continued, “They had quite a good time there. Are you available ? I don’t know when I will be online again. London has planned quite a night.”

AA, “Yes, just home from work.”

NL, “Awesome.”

AA, “I’ll be around for a couple of hours….or as long as I keep awake. Sounds like you lot with have no problems sleeping after all this…”

NL, “Ohh, the best day so far this new year, been….damn in fact the boys loved it even more after seeing us girls play LOL.”

And so it went on….and more later, but…..

There are some things that come out of this. First, there’s a term for what is going on here, this online seduction, pulling me into this fantasy world : Love Bombing. A term I didn’t learn until 2023, when doing research ahead of putting this blog together.

Next, this indicates that I was repeatedly being sent items that showed that what Naturist Lady was telling me, was real. Because, unlike here, some of the items I was sent were unique. I have never seen those photos of London before, and never seen them since ! And lets say some of them were special, very special indeed !! This shows she had access to London and London’s work. As we will see later, she would offer me access to London’s work and to London herself.

Lastly, this chat points to something that Naturist Lady repeatedly told me, that her husband was in some of London’s OnlyFans videos. Rather than, as we all thought, purely ‘Big’, London’s own husband.

I’ll discuss these things later...and of course, provide evidence. I’m not just making claims. I show them to be fact.

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Here We Go Again !

 

Here We Go Again !

Here we go again ! This corporate puritanism, that is now using ‘AI’, just gets worse. My last 2 posts have been given warnings and I have had to appeal for a review. It’s getting to the point where anything remotely sensual, never mind sexy is getting pulled on Tumblr. My worry is other platforms follow suit. I have to be very careful with FaceBook and Instagram, obviously. BlueSky has a good system of graduated levels : Suggestive : None sexual nudity, basically breast can be shown : Adult, for them that means full nudity but no sexual acts. Which I find useful and acceptable. And, I know the frame work I can work within. Other sites, Tumblr, MeWe and Mastodon, seem to keep moving the goalposts. Which is worrying long term. Will a point come where London Andrews will just become to sexy to share ? And I don’t even post her really raunchy work, erotica and sex material.

Anyway, here’s the text of my review requests, sarcastic enough ?

“Yes, I request a review ! And can you please provide a detailed explanation of what you now define as ‘Mature Content’ or Sexual Content’. This is a photo of a standard modelling pose. A model in lingerie with her back to the camera visibly wearing a G string to display her buttocks – nothing more. And then the other one….This video is just of a model in a vest, looking at the camera and pulling the vest to show her cleavage – nothing more. Or is London Andrews just to darn sexy for your puritanism ?”

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In Answer To A Question

 In Answer To A Question

The following is an answer to a question I received on Tumblr. It was interesting and thought I would share it.

The Question

“Y el tiempo que ella dijo que tuvo de celibato...osea no tuvo ninguna relación creo que fue durante su viaje con la casa rodante .. que duró casi dos años ... que nos dices de eso andy...si ella al parecer le gusta mucho el sexo “

“And the time she said she was celibate—meaning she didn't have any relationships—I think that was during her trip in the RV... which lasted almost two years... what do you say to that, Andy? Especially since she apparently really likes sex.”

(Pido disculpas a los lectores españoles. He tenido que utilizar Google Translate para esto.)

Respuesta en el blog :

Siempre me hacía gracia que la definición estándar de «célibe» y la definición de «célibe» que tenía London fueran cosas distintas. Ella se divertía retándome a adivinar cuánto se masturbaba para mantenerse «célibe».

Para que conste, la etapa de «celibato» de London comenzó a finales de 2015 y terminó a principios de 2018. Surgió porque los hombres con los que salía la chica detrás de London no sabían sobrellevar que su pareja fuera también la modelo de desnudos London Andrews. Esto causaba problemas en la vida privada de la chica cuyo nombre artístico era London Andrews.

¡Es importante entender la diferencia entre ambas facetas!

En 2015, London tenía 31 años y pensaba que solo le quedaban un par de años más en el mundo del modelaje online. Dados los problemas sentimentales que había sufrido recientemente, London decidió no arriesgarse más a tener citas. No buscaría entablar relaciones durante los años siguientes, hasta haber terminado su carrera como modelo. Una vez que dejara el modelaje y de ser London, le resultaría más fácil empezar a salir con alguien. Además, tras haber vivido situaciones bastante tóxicas y turbulentas, un poco de paz y tranquilidad en el terreno sentimental le vendría bien.

Ahora bien, ¿tuvo London encuentros de una noche durante esa época? Ni idea. La única vez que insinuó algo así —en privado, conmigo— fue cuando visitó Berlín en 2017. ¿Quizás haya gente que sepa más sobre posibles encuentros de una noche a través de mensajes privados o algo así?

Foto: Una publicación de Tumblr que registré el 26 de febrero de 2018. Esto ofrece una pista pública de lo que ocurría entre bastidores con London.

¡Su etapa de «celibato» llegó a un final rotundo a principios de 2018!

En enero, participó en un evento de encuentro con fans (*Meet & Greet*) de London Andrews en Miami. Conoció a alguien y sucedió algo. No, no se fueron a la cama a tener sexo. Todo lo contrario. Porque sucedió algo; algo que ella ni esperaba ni quería en un principio. Sí, el sexo es importante, y fue y sigue siendo fundamental para London en muchísimos aspectos. ¿Pero el amor? El amor lo cambia todo. Y London se enamoró del chico que había conocido. Mi esposa y yo fuimos testigos privilegiados de todo aquello —de su confusión y preocupación internas— a través de mensajes privados. Y eso ocurrió mucho antes de que ella «anunciara» públicamente a su nuevo novio... ¡publicando un vídeo en Snapchat de él follándosela! Ella nunca había planeado tener pareja —ese era precisamente el sentido que tenía para ella el «celibato»—, y mucho menos enamorarse.

Blog Reply :

It always made me laugh that the standard definition of ‘celibate’ and London’s definition of ‘celibate’, were different things. She would tease me to guess the amount of masturbation she needed to stay ‘celibate’.

For the record, London’s ‘celibate’ phase started at the end of 2015 and ended early in 2018. It came about because the guys the girl behind London were dating, couldn’t deal with this girl they were dating, also being the nude model London Andrews. This caused trouble in the private life of the girl who’s stage name was London Andrews.

It is important to understand the difference between the two personas !

In 2015 London was 31 years old and only thought she had a couple of more years left in online modelling. Given the trouble with relationships she had suffered over recent past, London decided that she would no longer risk dating. She would not look to get involved in relationships for the next few years, until she had finished modelling. Then when she had finished modelling and stopping being London, it would be easier of her to begin dating. Plus, given some of the toxic turmoil she had suffered back then, a little relationship peace and quiet might be a good thing.

Now, did London have one-night stands during this time ? I have no idea ? The only time she even hinted at something like this, in private to me, was when she visited Berlin in 2017. Some people may know more about any one-night stands through private messages etc ?

Photo : A Tumblr post recorded by me on the 26 Feb 2018. This give a public hint of what was going on behind the scenes with London.

Her ‘celibate’ phase came to a crashing end at the start 2018 !

She did a London Andrews ‘Meet n Greet’ in Miami in January. She met someone and something happened. No, they did not jump into bed and have sex. The exact opposite. Because something happened something she neither expected or wanted at first. Yes, sex is important and was and is central to London in many, many ways. But love ? Love changes everything. And London fell in love with the guy she had met. Myself and my wife had a ringside seat to this, to her inner confusion and worry, via private messages. And this was long before she publicly ‘announced’ her new boyfriend...by posting a video of him fucking her on SnapChat ! She had never planned to date – this was the whole meaning of ‘celibate’ to her – never mind fall in love.

And the guy she met in Miami, started dating and used for sex scenes on SnapChat, became her husband. They then produced porn together on OnlyFans for a number of years and they remain happily married, caring for each other and the animals at their sanctuary.

Let me know what you think.

Andy

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Evidence – A New Find

 

Evidence – A New Find

While cataloguing and sorting through all the photos, screenshots and videos I have in relation to the contentious events between myself and London Andrews, I found a little something.

Back in 2023 London said I was delusional to believe that she would have an open relationship. That she was happily married, which I have never doubted, and for this reason was not involved in any other relationships. Denying anything to do open relationships etc.

There’s so much I *can’t* prove, like the private conversation we had back in 2019. Her husband was still based in Miami and she was there and they visited one of his regular haunts. A girl came over to talk, a girl he had recently seen, taken out on dates. A girl he had had sex with. All this since he and London had married ! Because she had given him the freedom to do just that. She had repeatedly actually publicly posted about the fact that she had given her husband this freedom, but I don’t have a screenshot to prove it. But this time, because it had happened while she was there, face to face with this girl, she was upset and needed someone to talk to and that someone was me that time.

I don’t have a record of this conversation between us, because when I was blocked and unblocked back in 2021 and 2022, I lost almost all these messages across different social media.

Then there were public Tumblr posts about a sex group they were members of in Rochester area. Again I don’t know that I have any screenshots of these posts, but some of you may remember them?

Anyway, look what I found while going through things from 2020 ?

London, complaining that the Covid virus crisis was interfering in her open relationship.

“Question : ‘Are you in an open relationship ?’

London Reply : ‘We are. Yes. Although Covid has been a real damper on our sex life with our friends.”

Then offering some advice when answering someone's question on open relationships, based on her experiences !

So, here are screenshots from London Andrews Tumblr publicly talking about her open relationship !

This means that all London’s attacks on me for being delusional. All the denials in 2023 that I was wrong and lying, because she had never been in an open relationship – are lies !!

I’ll talk more about the collection of this post and the like, shortly, in a post covering the claims of stalking.

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