Some Questions 4

 

Some Questions 4

A little sidestep for a change, I’ll deal with a few questions that I get repeatedly asked.

‘You say that London Andrews helped you and your wife, how ?’

It wasn’t so much helping my wife and I directly, rather helping me understand what was going on inside my wife’s head.

First, you need to understand that both my wife and London Andrews were victims of childhood abuse. With London it didn’t show unless talked about it or she let it. You wouldn’t know because she worked to come to terms with it. My wife was in denial, but was a classic case with all the damage and issues from it just below the surface. It would take several years before she would finally admit it. It had been a battle against her resistance to being helped because that would mean admitting to the abuse.

How did London help ? In 2015 given events, I was ready to leave my wife. Talking to London did not give me the answer, but it gave me an insight into what was going on inside my wife’s head and thus understand. I helped to renew my patience, allow a change in approach and finally get her to engage with the professional help she so needed.

London and myself had several long conversations that helped greatly, can be summed up in two sentences.

‘She fights against change because change scares her. Because for her, the only change is a change for the worse !’

It sound and seems so simple, because it opened my eyes, because it was something I could not understand. This understanding allowed me to persist and to finally get her to engage with the professional help she had always needed, but resisted.

This is why, despite everything that has since happened between London and ourselves, I still feel a debt towards London.

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